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NOTE: In the French 14th-century
manuscript illumination from a Vies des Saints, Saint
Valentine, bishop of Terni, oversees the construction of
his basilica at Terni; there is no suggestion here yet
that the bishop was a patron of lovers,
However, there is...
That Thing They Call...


Love —{ Agape }
Greek noun meaning ‘love’ not much used in secular
writings but common in the NT for the gracious
selfgiving love of God shown in Christ; and
correspondingly of unselfish human love
There are several Greek words for love, as the Greek
language distinguishes how the word is used. Ancient
Greek has four distinct words for love: agápe, éros,
philía, and storgē. However, as with other languages, it
has been historically difficult to separate the meanings
of these words. Nonetheless, the senses in which these
words were generally used are given below.
Éros (έρως érōs) is passionate love, with sensual
desire and longing. The Modern Greek word "erotas" means
"(romantic) love;" however, eros does not have to be
sexual in nature. Eros can be interpreted as a love for
someone whom you love more than the philia, love of
friendship. It can also apply to dating relationships as
well as marriage. Plato refined his own definition:
Although eros is initially felt for a person, with
contemplation it becomes an appreciation of the beauty
within that person, or even becomes appreciation of
beauty itself. It should be noted Plato does not talk of
physical attraction as a necessary part of love, hence
the use of the word platonic to mean, "without physical
attraction." Plato also said eros helps the soul recall
knowledge of beauty, and contributes to an understanding
of spiritual truth. Lovers and philosophers are all
inspired to seek truth by eros. The most famous ancient
work on the subject of eros is Plato's Symposium, which
is a discussion among the students of Socrates on the
nature of eros.
Philia (φιλία philía) means friendship in modern
Greek. It is a dispassionate virtuous love, a concept
developed by Aristotle. It includes loyalty to friends,
family, and community, and requires virtue, equality and
familiarity. In ancient texts, philos denoted a general
type of love, used for love between family, between
friends, a desire or enjoyment of an activity, as well
as between lovers.
Storge (στοργή storgē) means "affection" in
ancient and modern Greek. It is natural affection, like
that felt by parents for offspring. Rarely used in
ancient works, and then almost exclusively as a
descriptor of relationships within the family. It is
also known to express mere acceptance or putting up with
situations, as in "loving" the tyrant.
Agápe (αγάπη agápē) means "love" in modern day
Greek, such as in the term s'agapo (Σ'αγαπώ), which
means "I love you". In Ancient Greek, it often refers to
a general affection or deeper sense of "true love"
rather than the attraction suggested by "eros".
Agape is the highest form of love... and it's used in
the biblical passage known as the "love chapter", 1
Corinthians 13, and is described there and throughout
the New Testament as sacrificial love, one that does NOT
expect anything in return. Agape is also used in ancient
texts to denote feelings one's children, and the
feelings for a spouse. It can be described as the
feeling of being content or holding one in high regard.
“There's no greater love (agape) than
this,
that one lays down his life for his friends.”
—John 15:13—

1st Corinthians
13
I may be able to speak the languages of human beings and
even of angels, but if I have no love, my speech is no
more than a noisy gong or a clanging bell. I may have
the gift of inspired preaching; I may have all knowledge
and understand all secrets; I may have all the faith
needed to move mountains---but if I have no love, I am
nothing. I may give away everything I have, and even
give up my body to be burned ---but if I have no love,
this does me no good.
Love
is patient and kind; it is not jealous or conceited or
proud; love is not ill-mannered or selfish or irritable;
love does not keep a record of wrongs; love is not happy
with evil, but is happy with the truth. Love never gives
up; and its faith, hope, and patience never fail. Love
is eternal.
There are inspired messages, but they are
temporary; there are gifts of speaking in strange
tongues, but they will cease; there is knowledge, but it
will pass. For our gifts of knowledge and of inspired
messages are only partial; but when what is perfect
comes, then what is partial will disappear.
When I was a child, my speech, feelings, and thinking
were all those of a child; now that I am an adult, I
have no more use for childish ways.
What we see now is like a dim image in a mirror; then we
shall see face-to-face. What I know now is only partial;
then it will be complete---as complete as God's
knowledge of me. Meanwhile these three remain: faith,
hope, and love; and the greatest of these is love. (1Co
13:1-13)



Loving Much, Loving little
"There was a certain creditor who had two debtors. The
one owed five hundred denarii, and the other fifty. And
they having nothing to pay, he freely forgave both. Then
which of them do you say will love him most? And
answering, Simon said, I suppose that one to whom he
forgave most. And He said to him, You have judged
rightly.
And He turned to the woman and said to Simon, Do you see
this woman? I entered into your house, yet you gave Me
no water for My feet. But she has washed My feet with
tears, and has wiped them with the hair of her head. You
gave Me no kiss, but this woman, since the time I came
in, has not ceased to kiss My feet.
You did not anoint My head with oil, but this woman has anointed My feet
with ointment. Therefore I say to you, Her sins, which
are many, are forgiven, for she loved much. But to whom
little is forgiven, he loves little. (Luke 7:41-47)

"How do I love thee?
Let me count the ways..."
by Elizabeth Barrett Browning (1806-1861)
How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.
I love thee to the depth and breadth and height
My soul can reach, when feeling out of sight
For the ends of Being and ideal Grace.
I love thee to the level of everyday's
Most quiet need, by sun and candle-light.
I love thee freely, as men strive for Right;
I love thee purely, as they turn from Praise.
I love thee with a passion put to use
In my old griefs, and with my childhood's faith.
I love thee with a love I seemed to lose
With my lost saints, --- I love thee with the breath,
Smiles, tears, of all my life! --- and, if God choose,
I shall but love thee better after death.


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